Meet The Black Men: Kahlil Haywood

AABM Post Photos_Kahlil HaywoodEpisode: Dating

Occupation: Case Manager

Twitter: @DamnPOPS

IG: damnitpops

Relationship Status: Single

Children: None

My definition of a man: A man is humble, responsible and practices discretion more times than not. He’s respectful and is a leader who makes sound decisions…more times than not.

The one thing I know to be true about women is that if she becomes “distant” it’s a red flag and it’s time to get to the bottom of things.

Three things every relationship should have are respect, fun and ambition.

My job as a boyfriend/husband is to listen to my woman. She should know that our relationship is the one place where she can let her guard down and feel safe emotionally. I’m to encourage my woman, make her smile and always protect her. And last, but certainly not least, I have to hold it down in bed and keep her looking young. lol

Any woman I’m involved with must at least understand my love of sports. She has to be nurturing, spontaneous and funny. She has to enjoy a good drink, be intelligent and have a smooth sense of style.

Sext/Text/Call? Sexting is cool, I’ll always be a fan but I live for great conversations on the phone. I think it’s a great way to build chemistry.

On a first date, I pay/she pays/we go dutch I pay, it’s my policy.

When dating, I approach first/wait for her to approach me I usually have to approach.

I want my legacy to be… that I have given people great material to read for years and that I was always humble, kind and willing to learn.